How To Avoid A Beating.
Marriage is a long journey filled with joy, happiness, challenges and victories. In most cases the character of each individual can only be guessed before the marriage vows are said and discoveries...
View ArticleFinancial Conversations Every Intending Couple Need to Have.
When you finally meet your dream partner and start dating, chances are high that you may be too carried away by the love and happiness you both share to the extent that you forget to discuss crucial...
View ArticleThe Death Of Love. Or Does It Yet Live?
It was the great bard Shakespeare who wrote that “Love is not love, which alters when its alteration finds.” Interpretation: A love that goes sour or down south was never love to begin with....
View ArticleLong Distance Relationship Issues.
Dear Mfa, I am a 4th year University student and I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 2 years. We were both in the same University but he graduated last year and is now serving with a company...
View ArticleFrom Our Comment Section: Before You Become A Full Time Housewife.
The truth is this man has erred but maybe it’s not really with his Heart. But whatever may be the case whether it’s premeditated or bewitchment, that woman is doing the only right thing in marriage...
View ArticleWriter’s Corner: Touched By Bella. Episode 1
When Charles first met Bella in 2013, marriage was the last thing on his mind. As a matter of fact, all he wanted to do was sleep with her and check her off his to-do list like he’d done with Kate and...
View ArticleFor The Singles: Say It!
This is a story about a guy who had been crushing on a girl for a really long time and couldn’t muster up the courage to let her know how he felt. Bode met Folake in the University and immediately fell...
View ArticleThe Dating Ninja: Does “The One” Truly Exist?
Men ought to be cautious of romantic waffles. For whatever reasons these flights of fancy are contrived, we need to be very careful of becoming a disciple to such branded nonsense. Before you get to...
View ArticleHow Do You Leave Your Emotional Baggage Behind?
Segilola met Tunji on an arranged date about 4 months ago. Their mutual friends had set them up because they both seemed to have similar emotional wants and needs. Both were in their late thirties with...
View Article7 Signs You Are Carrying Emotional Baggage.
Some of us are so used to negativity in our emotional affairs that we carry our past hurts and pains around like a badge of honour. The problem with our haulage of these emotional baggages is that it...
View ArticleCommunity Room: What Constitutes Husband Material?
A couple of things spurred me to send in this post. First was an article i read online that discussed the preference of ladies for “bad boys” and the second was an interaction i recently had with...
View ArticleWriter’s Corner: Touched By Bella. Episode 2
Kate lasted seven weeks. She was this uber-sexy, smart, pretty girl whose idea of a husband was solidly etched at the back of her head from when she was probably sixteen. Along with that larger than...
View ArticleCommunity Room: I Want A Child.
I am 39 years of age and I must confess I terribly want to have a child. I had hoped to be settled down by now, infact when I was much younger I set my sights on getting married at 26. But as we all
View ArticleLove In A Hopeless Place: From Pretty Woman, The Movie
Julia Robert’s voice: When I was a little girl, my momma used to lock me in the attic when I was bad (which is pretty often) and I would pretend I was a princess trapped in a tower by a wicked queen...
View ArticleI Love Her But I Can’t Propose.
Hello y’all, A week ago while slow walking up the stairs of the Silverbird Galleria, I bumped into an old friend of mine and former neighbour. He suggested we have lunch so we could catch up and I...
View ArticleAm I Normal?
Dear Mfa, I am a 36-year-old woman who has never had sex. Sex is even far off, I have never kissed a man. I know people will find it hard to believe but its my truth. I grew up in a deeply religious...
View ArticleCulled: The Effect Of Porn On Relationships.
You might think viewing pornography can’t hurt a real-life relationship. Some even claim that erotic material impacts their relationships in positive ways. So a team of researchers at Florida State...
View ArticleHelp: She Drinks.
I got married to my wife 6 years plus ago. We met at a mutual friend’s house and quickly became enamored with each other. We were best of friends and because i was seconded outside Lagos we decided we...
View ArticleCommunity Room: Dealing With Sexual Incompatibility In Marriage
Sex is one issue that generates a lot of reactions any day, anytime. Sexual compatibility has been an excuse for premarital sex and other forms of sexual explorations by both married and unmarried...
View ArticleMarriage, The Cure To Promiscuity. From The Best Man, The Movie
In the movie The Best Man, Lance Sullivan to the chagrin of his friends announced at his pre-wedding dinner that marriage was the cure to promiscuity! As you might imagine, this statement drew the ire...
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